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About the Book

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For Emotional Predators, life is a strategy game to dominate and control, and you are either a player to be defeated or a game piece to be used. Before you know what’s happening, they’ll ruin your life without empathy or remorse – and traditional approaches will make things worse.

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Protecting Yourself from Emotional Predators provides valuable guidance
for safe relationships, 5 essential steps for protecting yourself
and over 30 specific defensive tactics for:

  • Distinguishing romance from intimacy
  • Restoring your self-esteem
  • Removing your emotional triggers
  • Using gratitude and humor
  • Playing their games better than they do – without becoming like them
  • Responding strategically
  • Regaining control in family court
  • Screening professionals to be sure they can help
  • Breaking an addiction to an Emotional Predator
  • Re-balancing power in your favor
  • Adjusting beliefs that keep you trapped

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Protecting Yourself
from Emotional Predators

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FREE ASSESSMENT

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Find out if you’re a target
for emotional predators

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CONSULTATIONS

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Help to apply tactics
to your unique situation

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DISPUTE RESOLUTION

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Creative Resolutions
to seemingly impossible situations

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A radically different view of abusive and manipulative people and practical effective protections.

[/ultimate_heading][vc_column_text]For Emotional Predators, life is a strategy game to dominate and control, and you are either a player to be defeated or a game piece to be used. Before you know what’s happening, they’ll ruin your life without empathy or remorse – and traditional approaches will make things worse.

Provides valuable guidance for safe relationships, 5 essential steps for protecting yourself and over 30 specific defensive tactics for:[/vc_column_text][vc_row_inner][vc_column_inner width=”1/2″][vc_column_text]

  • Distinguishing romance from intimacy
  • Restoring your self-esteem
  • Removing your emotional triggers
  • Using gratitude and humor
  • Playing their games better than they do – without becoming like them
  • Responding strategically

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  • Regaining control in family court
  • Screening professionals to be sure they can help
  • Breaking an addiction to an Emotional Predator
  • Re-balancing power in your favor
  • Adjusting beliefs that keep you trapped

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[/vc_column_text][vc_column_text el_class=”mailchimp”]Contact Us[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row full_width=”stretch_row” content_placement=”middle” bg_type=”image” parallax_style=”vcpb-default” bg_image_new=”id^1266|url^https://emotionalpredators.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/mt-fuji-faded.jpg|caption^null|alt^null|title^mt-fuji-faded|description^null” bg_image_repeat=”no-repeat” bg_image_posiiton=”0px -50px” bg_override=”ex-full” type=”vc_default” css=”.vc_custom_1577060972083{margin-right: 0px !important;margin-left: 0px !important;padding-top: 175px !important;padding-right: 0px !important;padding-bottom: 75px !important;padding-left: 0px !important;}” el_id=”bookinfo” el_class=”fuji”][vc_column][ultimate_heading main_heading=”Are you a target for Emotional Predators?” main_heading_color=”#000000″ sub_heading_color=”#000000″ main_heading_font_size=”desktop:50px;mobile_landscape:24px;” main_heading_line_height=”desktop:50px;mobile_landscape:34px;” el_class=”accent-title-color color-title” main_heading_font_family=”font_family:Raleway|font_call:Raleway” sub_heading_font_family=”font_family:Raleway|font_call:Raleway” sub_heading_style=”font-weight:bold;” sub_heading_font_size=”desktop:28px;tablet_portrait:40px;” sub_heading_line_height=”desktop:76px;tablet_portrait:50px;” sub_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:50px;” main_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:15px;” main_heading_style=”font-weight:bold;”]Take this free 12-minute assessment to find out how vulnerable you might be.[/ultimate_heading][ult_buttons btn_title=”FREE ASSESSMENT” btn_link=”url:%2Fquiz%2Femotional-predators-how-vulnerable-are-you-12-minute-free-assessment%2F||target:%20_blank|” btn_align=”ubtn-center” btn_title_color=”#ffffff” btn_bg_color=”#dd9933″ btn_anim_effect=”ulta-grow” btn_bg_color_hover=”#175f9a” icon=”none” icon_size=”14″ btn_icon_pos=”ubtn-sep-icon-at-right” btn_font_style=”font-weight:bold;” btn_font_size=”desktop:14px;mobile_landscape:18px;” btn_line_height=”desktop:25px;mobile_landscape:18px;” css_adv_btn=”.vc_custom_1577060259740{margin-top: 0px !important;margin-bottom: 0px !important;padding-top: 0px !important;padding-bottom: 0px !important;}”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row gap=”30″ equal_height=”yes” bg_type=”bg_color” bg_override=”ex-full” type=”vc_default” bg_color_value=”#f4f4f4″ css=”.vc_custom_1521184533063{padding-top: 70px !important;padding-right: 25px !important;padding-bottom: 10px !important;padding-left: 25px !important;}” el_id=”reviews”][vc_column css=”.vc_custom_1490961613212{margin-top: -15px !important;margin-right: -25px !important;margin-bottom: -15px !important;margin-left: -25px !important;}”][ultimate_heading main_heading=”Praise for Protecting Yourself from Emotional Predators” main_heading_font_size=”desktop:32px;” main_heading_line_height=”desktop:34px;” main_heading_font_family=”font_family:Raleway|font_call:Raleway” sub_heading_font_family=”font_family:Raleway|font_call:Raleway” sub_heading_style=”font-weight:bold;” sub_heading_font_size=”desktop:28px;” sub_heading_line_height=”desktop:50px;” sub_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:60px;” main_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:10px;”][/ultimate_heading][/vc_column][vc_column css=”.vc_custom_1490959992837{padding-top: 30px !important;padding-bottom: 30px !important;background-color: #ffffff !important;}” offset=”vc_col-lg-6 vc_col-md-6 vc_col-xs-12″][vc_row_inner equal_height=”yes” content_placement=”middle” css=”.vc_custom_1490943199045{padding-right: 15px !important;padding-left: 15px !important;}”][vc_column_inner css=”.vc_custom_1545540846980{margin-top: 0px !important;margin-right: 0px !important;margin-bottom: 0px !important;margin-left: 0px !important;padding-top: 0px !important;padding-right: 15px !important;padding-bottom: 0px !important;padding-left: 15px !important;}”][vc_column_text]Many have written lately about the manipulative sorts who know how to manage impressions but heartlessly prey on your sensibilities to get the better of you. But Steven describes these emotional predators with uncommon clarity and accuracy, in an excellent writing style, and offers spot-on practical advice on how to best protect yourself to boot. A must read![/vc_column_text][ultimate_heading main_heading=”Dr. George Simon” main_heading_color=”#000000″ alignment=”left” main_heading_font_size=”desktop:18px;” main_heading_line_height=”desktop:30px;” el_class=”color-title” main_heading_font_family=”font_family:Open Sans|font_call:Open+Sans” sub_heading_font_family=”font_family:Raleway|font_call:Raleway” sub_heading_style=”font-weight:bold;” sub_heading_font_size=”desktop:14px;” sub_heading_line_height=”desktop:24px;” sub_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:20px;” main_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:0px;” main_heading_style=”font-weight:bold;”]Author of In Sheep’s Clothing and Character Disturbance: The Phenomenon of Our Age[/ultimate_heading][/vc_column_inner][/vc_row_inner][/vc_column][vc_column css=”.vc_custom_1490959972837{padding-top: 30px !important;padding-bottom: 30px !important;background-color: #ffffff !important;}” offset=”vc_col-lg-6 vc_col-md-6 vc_col-xs-12″][vc_row_inner equal_height=”yes” content_placement=”middle” css=”.vc_custom_1490942974643{padding-right: 15px !important;padding-left: 15px !important;}”][vc_column_inner css=”.vc_custom_1545540867591{margin-top: 0px !important;margin-right: 0px !important;margin-bottom: 0px !important;margin-left: 0px !important;padding-top: 0px !important;padding-right: 15px !important;padding-bottom: 0px !important;padding-left: 15px !important;}”][vc_column_text]

I’ve read so many books identifying issues with NO solutions or strategies on what to do. You presented very practical and realistic strategies that are within grasp and will make a difference. I got answers, not more questions. You presented real life things to do.  Thank you for writing this book and getting this important information out into the world.

[/vc_column_text][ultimate_heading main_heading=”Kimberly M” main_heading_color=”#000000″ alignment=”left” main_heading_font_size=”desktop:18px;” main_heading_line_height=”desktop:30px;” el_class=”color-title” main_heading_font_family=”font_family:Open Sans|font_call:Open+Sans” sub_heading_font_family=”font_family:Raleway|font_call:Raleway” sub_heading_style=”font-weight:bold;” sub_heading_font_size=”desktop:14px;” sub_heading_line_height=”desktop:24px;” sub_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:20px;” main_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:0px;” main_heading_style=”font-weight:bold;”]Artist, escapee from an abusive relationship[/ultimate_heading][/vc_column_inner][/vc_row_inner][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row][vc_column css=”.vc_custom_1576789120574{margin-bottom: 60px !important;}”][ult_buttons btn_title=”READ MORE” btn_link=”url:https%3A%2F%2Femotionalpredators.com%2Fpraise-for-protecting-yourself-from-emotional-predators%2F|||” btn_align=”ubtn-center” btn_title_color=”#ffffff” btn_bg_color=”#dd9933″ btn_anim_effect=”ulta-grow” btn_bg_color_hover=”#175f9a” icon=”none” icon_size=”14″ btn_icon_pos=”ubtn-sep-icon-at-right” btn_font_style=”font-weight:bold;” btn_font_size=”desktop:14px;mobile_landscape:18px;” btn_line_height=”desktop:25px;mobile_landscape:18px;” css_adv_btn=”.vc_custom_1577060783347{margin-top: 0px !important;margin-bottom: 0px !important;padding-top: 0px !important;padding-bottom: 0px !important;}”][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row equal_height=”yes” disable_element=”yes” type=”vc_default” el_id=”about”][vc_column parallax=”content-moving” width=”1/3″ offset=”vc_col-lg-offset-0 vc_col-lg-4 vc_col-md-offset-0 vc_col-md-5 vc_col-sm-offset-0 vc_col-xs-offset-2 vc_col-xs-8″ css=”.vc_custom_1550715266406{margin-top: 10px !important;margin-right: 10px !important;margin-bottom: 10px !important;margin-left: 10px !important;background-image: url(https://emotionalpredators.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/12/steven.jpg?id=845) !important;background-position: center !important;background-repeat: no-repeat !important;background-size: contain !important;}”][/vc_column][vc_column width=”2/3″ css=”.vc_custom_1548326116031{padding-top: 70px !important;padding-bottom: 70px !important;}” offset=”vc_col-lg-8 vc_col-md-7″ el_id=”auther_info”][ultimate_heading main_heading=”About the Author” main_heading_color=”#777777″ sub_heading_color=”#777777″ alignment=”left” main_heading_font_size=”desktop:28px;” main_heading_line_height=”desktop:34px;” el_class=”accent-title-color color-title about-author” main_heading_font_family=”font_family:Raleway|font_call:Raleway” sub_heading_font_family=”font_family:Raleway|font_call:Raleway” sub_heading_font_size=”desktop:18px;” sub_heading_line_height=”desktop:24px;” main_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:10px;” main_heading_style=”font-weight:bold;” sub_heading_margin=”margin-top:20px;”]Steven Wolhandler, JD, MA, LPC knows how abusive and manipulative people prey on the emotions of good people – and how good people can protect themselves. He has been learning about abusers and manipulators – Emotional Predators – professionally since 1984, first as an attorney, then as a psychotherapist, mediator, arbitrator, and family court custody evaluator and neutral between parents, and in the last decade as a consultant and author. He has helped hundreds of people learn the true nature of the problem of toxic people, why traditional approaches and normal reactions make things worse, and practical effective ways to neutralize them.[/ultimate_heading][/vc_column][/vc_row][vc_row disable_element=”yes”][vc_column][ultimate_heading main_heading=”Protection from Narcissists, Psychopaths, and other Users, Abusers and Manipulators” main_heading_color=”#777777″ sub_heading_color=”#777777″ sub_heading_font_size=”desktop:22px;” main_heading_margin=”margin-bottom:20px;” sub_heading_style=”font-style:italic;,font-weight:bold;”]

Serious Help for Dealing With Seriously Difficult People

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